Moving An Elderly Parent Into Your Home: What To Know
Ty McDuffey
April 15, 2023
|
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You will not be alone if you decide to transfer an elderly parent or other aging relative into your home.
According to Caregiving in the United States 2020, a survey conducted by AARP and the National Alliance for Caregiving, one in five people in the United States care for someone aged 50 or older.
This arrangement has numerous advantages, but it is not suitable for everyone.
It may be less expensive than placing the individual in a nursing home (which costs approximately $9,000 per month on average) or an assisted living facility (which costs approximately $4,500 per year on average), but you may pay a high price in terms of stress and strained relationships.
Adding another person to the home affects the dynamics of the whole family, no matter how tight and loving your relationship is. The transition will go more smoothly if you and your loved one go in with an open mind and evaluate the financial and emotional expenses ahead of time.
This post will advise you on the considerations to make when deciding whether to have an aging parent live with you.
Key Takeaways:
Caregiving for an elderly parent has hidden expenditures and requires careful planning and preparation. Consider your parent's mental and physical health and your own abilities and boundaries before deciding to care for them at home.
Intergenerational connection and legacy can have advantages, but it's important to ensure everyone is on board and ready to make sacrifices and take on obligations.
Preparing your house for a parent's arrival may require installations, such as a stairlift or a walk-in shower. There may also be financial implications, such as the Child and Dependent Care Credit.
Can You Afford to Have a Parent Move In?
At first glance, you might think relocating a parent would save your family money by cutting out the cost of a nursing home.
However, you need to know that providing care in your home may also rapidly become expensive.
Examining your existing budget and forecasting how it could change if your parent moves in is critical.
Caregiving has hidden expenditures, such as time spent driving your parent to medical visits and elder care programs.
You will continue to pay your own household bills, such as mortgage and insurance, but you will most likely need to raise your income for food and any home modifications or adjustments necessary to make your new living arrangement comfortable for your elderly parent.
Spending the effort now to forecast your additional expenses may help you stay on track with your budget.
What Type of Care Would Your Elderly Parent Need at Home?
Consider your aging parent's mental and physical health before deciding to care for them at home.
Are they reasonably healthy and self-sufficient, needing little care?
If this is the case, relocating your parent may allow them to connect with other family members. Your children can get to know them while they’re still healthy.
On the other hand, does your parent have a chronic illness? What will their condition be like in six months? Two years? What will your parents’ caregiving needs be in the future?
One of the primary responsibilities of a caregiver is to evaluate medical needs. Keeping track of medical appointments, managing medications, or estimating pain levels are all examples of what this entails.
Consider reading about typical dementia behaviors to ensure you and your family are prepared if your parent suffers memory loss or cognitive decline.
Ultimately, you should consult a doctor and other health specialists before caring for your elderly parents at home and consider whether you can deal with their chronic diseases or physical restrictions.
How Much Personal Help and Monitoring Can You Offer?
Before moving an elderly parent into your home, consider your abilities and boundaries.
Are you comfortable conducting personal responsibilities, such as washing and dressing, if your parent needs assistance with activities of daily living?
Are you willing and able to assist your parent in using the restroom throughout the night?
Consider these questions and more:
Do you have somebody at home who can assist you? You may not always be there to assist your parent when needed, such as shifting from a wheelchair to a bed.
Do you have any kids? Consider how relocating your elderly parents will impact your children. Are your children old enough to help with everyday tasks or provide care for your parents if necessary?
Do you have a job? If so, do you have the ability to set aside spare time? Flexibility during the day or evening might be beneficial if an emergency occurs or you need to help with errands, medication, or transportation.
Related: Is It Wrong To Move Away From Elderly Parents? My Advice
How Are You Going to Prepare Your House for Your Elderly Parents?
Consider these and more questions:
Do you have an available room or need to make space via house remodeling?
Will someone have to give up their room at home?
Is there an accessible restroom nearby for your senior loved one?
Is your parent confined to a wheelchair? Can your home suit their mobility requirements?
Is the expense of home remodeling worth it for both short-term and long-term health care needs?
Will your parent and other family members be able to preserve a reasonable amount of privacy at home?
Answer these questions in your head before moving on.
What Are Your Family Members' Feelings Towards the Prospective Move-in?
When moving your parent in, communicate with family members and follow your instincts.
Facilitate family discussions or ask relatives one-on-one, but make an effort to gather answers to the following questions:
Is your spouse encouraging of the idea? Do they get along well with your parents?
How does your elderly parent feel about this change?
There are several advantages to intergenerational connection and legacy.
For example, it allows families to assist one another and form stronger bonds.
However, make sure everyone is on board with the plan and is ready to accept possible sacrifices and obligations.
Consider meals, household noise levels, and everyone's interests and weekly lifestyles before making your decision.
How Will Your Parents' Social Life Be Affected By the Move?
When your parent moves in with you, they may leave their own social circle and friends behind.
It may also be difficult for elderly individuals to adapt to a new setting, particularly if they are stubborn or struggling with a disease like Alzheimer’s.
If you and your spouse work outside the house and your children are in school, your elderly parent will have a lot of alone time.
Senior depression and loneliness as a result of isolation might become a problem.
Will Your Parent Be Able to Follow Your Home Rules?
When your parent moves in with you, your relationship changes. You, not your elderly parent, are now the main caregiver and decision-maker.
It's a chance for the whole family to rethink rules, determine which ones work, and create new ones as needed.
You may set home rules that work for the whole family and allow your elderly parent to adjust gracefully to their new dependent status if everyone is prepared to adapt and compromise.
Here are a few considerations:
Will your parent be able to cope with the loss of part of their freedom, as well as the space and solitude they have become used to?
Will they respect your values regarding your childrearing and your way of life?
Is it likely that your parent will smoke or drink in your home?
Will your parent respect the standards of cleanliness and order you like in your home?
Is your parent the owner of a pet you're taking in? If so, will the pet follow your rules on behavior and cleanliness?
Some elderly people adapt well to their dependent status. Some resist it. Others are saddened or enraged by it.
Will a parent accept your aid? Will you be relegated to the position of son or daughter, with your parent continually directing you on what to do?
Will your parent make you feel you never do it right and can never do enough to meet their needs?
Consider your answers to these questions as you use this as a chance to establish new boundaries and build new relationships.
How to Prepare Mentally for Caregiving
Remember that moving your elderly parent into your home is not a decision you can make one day and be ready for the next, particularly if they need special care.
When You Are Stressed, Go Back Over Your Decision
Remember why you decided to move your elderly parent into your home when things get tough and stressful.
Take a few deep breaths if anything happens during the move-in that causes your heart to race and your anger to flare.
When emotions take over, reminding yourself why you selected this decision for you and your parents may help put things in perspective.
Here are some reasons that may appeal to you:
Using your own home could help the family save money compared to a long-term care facility.
It's an excellent chance to spend extra time with a loved one.
Your parents could assist you with childcare.
Caring for your parents gives you pride and peace of mind since you know they are in the best hands with you.
How to Get Your Home Ready for Aging Parents
This checklist will assist you in preparing your house for the arrival of a parent.
Make Your House Safe for the Elderly
It's normal practice to baby-proof a home before the arrival of a child; you should similarly "elder-proof" your home when relocating an elderly parent. This will assist your parent in feeling safe and comfortable while they adapt to living in a new house.
To prepare your house, use the following checklist:
Ground floor: Try to have your parent reside on the same level as the kitchen so they don't have to use the stairs. Consider installing a stairlift if your house has steps.
Bathroom: Install grab bars and think about adding a walk-in shower.
Safety equipment: Place anti-slip mats under carpets, place bumpers on sharp furniture corners, and remove wobbly chairs.
Clear the flooring: If you have children, consider buying toy containers to keep the floor free of tripping hazards.
Use proper lighting: Make sure that rooms, corridors, and pathways are well-lit.
Ensure wheelchair access: If your parent needs a wheelchair, ensure doorways and hallways are wide enough for a wheelchair to pass through (between 32 and 36 inches) and provide ramps where necessary.
Put Everyone's Privacy First
If you bring a parent into your house, you'll have to share common spaces (unless you have an in-law suite).
Regardless of the size of the house, it is important that you and your parents have your own space.
Even if your parent needs intensive care, the most effective method to have them live with you is to give them as much liberty as possible.
Here are some ideas for fostering parental independence in a confined space:
Kitchen: Give your parents their own kitchen cabinet for storage. Give them their own refrigerator shelf, if possible.
Laundry: Get laundry baskets and towels in a separate color for your parents so they don't get mixed up with yours. Encourage your parents, if they are able, to do their own washing.
TVs: Consider getting your parents their own television so they can watch anything they want during the day or at night.
Pets: You could allow parents to have their own pet as a friend and added duty. If your parents cannot care for the pet, ensure that someone else in the family is capable before introducing a pet into your household.
Communication: Using baby monitors or walkie-talkies may boost communication while preserving privacy. A baby monitor enables you to hear your parent call for assistance, while a walkie-talkie allows you to have two-way conversations without leaving the room.
Intimacy: Consider setting boundaries on intimate relationships. Is it okay for Mom and her lover to cuddle in the living room? Can your Dad's girlfriend spend the night, or do they need to find another place to stay?
The Tax Implications of Having a Parent Live with You
Let's start with the basic tax ramifications of having a parent live with you.
Tax advantages are available to assist you in recuperating part of your expenditures if you care for an elderly parent in your home.
The first possible advantage is the opportunity to list your parent as a dependant on your tax return.
You may do so even if your parent does not live with you; nevertheless, the following are the conditions for claiming dependence on a parent who lives with you:
Your parent must be a US citizen or resident.
Foster parents are not eligible, but parents, grandparents, and stepparents are.
Their total annual income must be less than $5,000.
Throughout the year, you pay for more than half of their support (if your siblings are helping to care for your parents, you may need to sort out the percentages with them).
If you and a sibling pay less than half of your parents' expenditures while providing at least 10%, one of you may claim them as a dependant on IRS form 2120. You may even alternate who claims the deduction each year.
Credit for Child and Dependent Care
What happens if you live with an older parent and hire someone to care for them while you work or hunt for a job? You might qualify for the Child and Dependent Care Credit.
If you employ someone to care for a parent who lives with you, you may deduct up to $3,000 in care-related costs under the Child and Dependent Care Credit. If you are caring for two parents, you may claim up to $6,000 in benefits.
The sole exception is that if you get a dependent care benefit that is excluded or deducted from your income via your employer, you must remove that benefit amount from the credit before claiming it.
Deduction for Medical Expenses
When caring for an elderly parent, the expenses of prescription medications, doctor and hospital fees, and medical equipment may quickly add up.
If your medical expenditures surpass the IRS threshold, you may be eligible to claim the medical expense deduction as part of your expenses when you submit your taxes.
As of 2023, the rule is that if your medical expenditures exceed 7.5% of your adjusted gross income from 2022, you may be allowed to deduct a portion of those expenses by claiming them as itemized deductions.
To deduct any portion of your parent's medical expenditures from your taxes, you must first be eligible to claim them as a dependant.
Keep in mind that state regulations may be less stringent than those enforced by the IRS, so you may be able to save money on state taxes as well.
Final Considerations Before Moving Your Elderly Parents into Your House
Remember that having a growth mindset and a good attitude are important aspects of how we conduct our lives. Your mentality will determine the success of this transition.
If you are concerned about the changes that are taking place, please seek guidance from your local Agency on Aging. They have excellent case managers who can advise you on coping with the various changes you and your loved ones are experiencing.
Maintaining open lines of communication among all members of your family is also critical. Some changes may be required over time, but other families have done this successfully; you can, too.
How Can Trustworthy Help?
Take the first steps towards preventing an emergency by signing up for Trustworthy today.
With Trustworthy, you can upload all of your parents’ important financial and legal documents to one secure server. That way, when they move into your home, you won’t lose any of your parents’ critical papers, such as their powers of attorney and wills.
Don’t take a risk with your parent’s legal future. Start your free 14-day trial now.
Moving An Elderly Parent Into Your Home: What To Know
Ty McDuffey
April 15, 2023
|
You will not be alone if you decide to transfer an elderly parent or other aging relative into your home.
According to Caregiving in the United States 2020, a survey conducted by AARP and the National Alliance for Caregiving, one in five people in the United States care for someone aged 50 or older.
This arrangement has numerous advantages, but it is not suitable for everyone.
It may be less expensive than placing the individual in a nursing home (which costs approximately $9,000 per month on average) or an assisted living facility (which costs approximately $4,500 per year on average), but you may pay a high price in terms of stress and strained relationships.
Adding another person to the home affects the dynamics of the whole family, no matter how tight and loving your relationship is. The transition will go more smoothly if you and your loved one go in with an open mind and evaluate the financial and emotional expenses ahead of time.
This post will advise you on the considerations to make when deciding whether to have an aging parent live with you.
Key Takeaways:
Caregiving for an elderly parent has hidden expenditures and requires careful planning and preparation. Consider your parent's mental and physical health and your own abilities and boundaries before deciding to care for them at home.
Intergenerational connection and legacy can have advantages, but it's important to ensure everyone is on board and ready to make sacrifices and take on obligations.
Preparing your house for a parent's arrival may require installations, such as a stairlift or a walk-in shower. There may also be financial implications, such as the Child and Dependent Care Credit.
Can You Afford to Have a Parent Move In?
At first glance, you might think relocating a parent would save your family money by cutting out the cost of a nursing home.
However, you need to know that providing care in your home may also rapidly become expensive.
Examining your existing budget and forecasting how it could change if your parent moves in is critical.
Caregiving has hidden expenditures, such as time spent driving your parent to medical visits and elder care programs.
You will continue to pay your own household bills, such as mortgage and insurance, but you will most likely need to raise your income for food and any home modifications or adjustments necessary to make your new living arrangement comfortable for your elderly parent.
Spending the effort now to forecast your additional expenses may help you stay on track with your budget.
What Type of Care Would Your Elderly Parent Need at Home?
Consider your aging parent's mental and physical health before deciding to care for them at home.
Are they reasonably healthy and self-sufficient, needing little care?
If this is the case, relocating your parent may allow them to connect with other family members. Your children can get to know them while they’re still healthy.
On the other hand, does your parent have a chronic illness? What will their condition be like in six months? Two years? What will your parents’ caregiving needs be in the future?
One of the primary responsibilities of a caregiver is to evaluate medical needs. Keeping track of medical appointments, managing medications, or estimating pain levels are all examples of what this entails.
Consider reading about typical dementia behaviors to ensure you and your family are prepared if your parent suffers memory loss or cognitive decline.
Ultimately, you should consult a doctor and other health specialists before caring for your elderly parents at home and consider whether you can deal with their chronic diseases or physical restrictions.
How Much Personal Help and Monitoring Can You Offer?
Before moving an elderly parent into your home, consider your abilities and boundaries.
Are you comfortable conducting personal responsibilities, such as washing and dressing, if your parent needs assistance with activities of daily living?
Are you willing and able to assist your parent in using the restroom throughout the night?
Consider these questions and more:
Do you have somebody at home who can assist you? You may not always be there to assist your parent when needed, such as shifting from a wheelchair to a bed.
Do you have any kids? Consider how relocating your elderly parents will impact your children. Are your children old enough to help with everyday tasks or provide care for your parents if necessary?
Do you have a job? If so, do you have the ability to set aside spare time? Flexibility during the day or evening might be beneficial if an emergency occurs or you need to help with errands, medication, or transportation.
Related: Is It Wrong To Move Away From Elderly Parents? My Advice
How Are You Going to Prepare Your House for Your Elderly Parents?
Consider these and more questions:
Do you have an available room or need to make space via house remodeling?
Will someone have to give up their room at home?
Is there an accessible restroom nearby for your senior loved one?
Is your parent confined to a wheelchair? Can your home suit their mobility requirements?
Is the expense of home remodeling worth it for both short-term and long-term health care needs?
Will your parent and other family members be able to preserve a reasonable amount of privacy at home?
Answer these questions in your head before moving on.
What Are Your Family Members' Feelings Towards the Prospective Move-in?
When moving your parent in, communicate with family members and follow your instincts.
Facilitate family discussions or ask relatives one-on-one, but make an effort to gather answers to the following questions:
Is your spouse encouraging of the idea? Do they get along well with your parents?
How does your elderly parent feel about this change?
There are several advantages to intergenerational connection and legacy.
For example, it allows families to assist one another and form stronger bonds.
However, make sure everyone is on board with the plan and is ready to accept possible sacrifices and obligations.
Consider meals, household noise levels, and everyone's interests and weekly lifestyles before making your decision.
How Will Your Parents' Social Life Be Affected By the Move?
When your parent moves in with you, they may leave their own social circle and friends behind.
It may also be difficult for elderly individuals to adapt to a new setting, particularly if they are stubborn or struggling with a disease like Alzheimer’s.
If you and your spouse work outside the house and your children are in school, your elderly parent will have a lot of alone time.
Senior depression and loneliness as a result of isolation might become a problem.
Will Your Parent Be Able to Follow Your Home Rules?
When your parent moves in with you, your relationship changes. You, not your elderly parent, are now the main caregiver and decision-maker.
It's a chance for the whole family to rethink rules, determine which ones work, and create new ones as needed.
You may set home rules that work for the whole family and allow your elderly parent to adjust gracefully to their new dependent status if everyone is prepared to adapt and compromise.
Here are a few considerations:
Will your parent be able to cope with the loss of part of their freedom, as well as the space and solitude they have become used to?
Will they respect your values regarding your childrearing and your way of life?
Is it likely that your parent will smoke or drink in your home?
Will your parent respect the standards of cleanliness and order you like in your home?
Is your parent the owner of a pet you're taking in? If so, will the pet follow your rules on behavior and cleanliness?
Some elderly people adapt well to their dependent status. Some resist it. Others are saddened or enraged by it.
Will a parent accept your aid? Will you be relegated to the position of son or daughter, with your parent continually directing you on what to do?
Will your parent make you feel you never do it right and can never do enough to meet their needs?
Consider your answers to these questions as you use this as a chance to establish new boundaries and build new relationships.
How to Prepare Mentally for Caregiving
Remember that moving your elderly parent into your home is not a decision you can make one day and be ready for the next, particularly if they need special care.
When You Are Stressed, Go Back Over Your Decision
Remember why you decided to move your elderly parent into your home when things get tough and stressful.
Take a few deep breaths if anything happens during the move-in that causes your heart to race and your anger to flare.
When emotions take over, reminding yourself why you selected this decision for you and your parents may help put things in perspective.
Here are some reasons that may appeal to you:
Using your own home could help the family save money compared to a long-term care facility.
It's an excellent chance to spend extra time with a loved one.
Your parents could assist you with childcare.
Caring for your parents gives you pride and peace of mind since you know they are in the best hands with you.
How to Get Your Home Ready for Aging Parents
This checklist will assist you in preparing your house for the arrival of a parent.
Make Your House Safe for the Elderly
It's normal practice to baby-proof a home before the arrival of a child; you should similarly "elder-proof" your home when relocating an elderly parent. This will assist your parent in feeling safe and comfortable while they adapt to living in a new house.
To prepare your house, use the following checklist:
Ground floor: Try to have your parent reside on the same level as the kitchen so they don't have to use the stairs. Consider installing a stairlift if your house has steps.
Bathroom: Install grab bars and think about adding a walk-in shower.
Safety equipment: Place anti-slip mats under carpets, place bumpers on sharp furniture corners, and remove wobbly chairs.
Clear the flooring: If you have children, consider buying toy containers to keep the floor free of tripping hazards.
Use proper lighting: Make sure that rooms, corridors, and pathways are well-lit.
Ensure wheelchair access: If your parent needs a wheelchair, ensure doorways and hallways are wide enough for a wheelchair to pass through (between 32 and 36 inches) and provide ramps where necessary.
Put Everyone's Privacy First
If you bring a parent into your house, you'll have to share common spaces (unless you have an in-law suite).
Regardless of the size of the house, it is important that you and your parents have your own space.
Even if your parent needs intensive care, the most effective method to have them live with you is to give them as much liberty as possible.
Here are some ideas for fostering parental independence in a confined space:
Kitchen: Give your parents their own kitchen cabinet for storage. Give them their own refrigerator shelf, if possible.
Laundry: Get laundry baskets and towels in a separate color for your parents so they don't get mixed up with yours. Encourage your parents, if they are able, to do their own washing.
TVs: Consider getting your parents their own television so they can watch anything they want during the day or at night.
Pets: You could allow parents to have their own pet as a friend and added duty. If your parents cannot care for the pet, ensure that someone else in the family is capable before introducing a pet into your household.
Communication: Using baby monitors or walkie-talkies may boost communication while preserving privacy. A baby monitor enables you to hear your parent call for assistance, while a walkie-talkie allows you to have two-way conversations without leaving the room.
Intimacy: Consider setting boundaries on intimate relationships. Is it okay for Mom and her lover to cuddle in the living room? Can your Dad's girlfriend spend the night, or do they need to find another place to stay?
The Tax Implications of Having a Parent Live with You
Let's start with the basic tax ramifications of having a parent live with you.
Tax advantages are available to assist you in recuperating part of your expenditures if you care for an elderly parent in your home.
The first possible advantage is the opportunity to list your parent as a dependant on your tax return.
You may do so even if your parent does not live with you; nevertheless, the following are the conditions for claiming dependence on a parent who lives with you:
Your parent must be a US citizen or resident.
Foster parents are not eligible, but parents, grandparents, and stepparents are.
Their total annual income must be less than $5,000.
Throughout the year, you pay for more than half of their support (if your siblings are helping to care for your parents, you may need to sort out the percentages with them).
If you and a sibling pay less than half of your parents' expenditures while providing at least 10%, one of you may claim them as a dependant on IRS form 2120. You may even alternate who claims the deduction each year.
Credit for Child and Dependent Care
What happens if you live with an older parent and hire someone to care for them while you work or hunt for a job? You might qualify for the Child and Dependent Care Credit.
If you employ someone to care for a parent who lives with you, you may deduct up to $3,000 in care-related costs under the Child and Dependent Care Credit. If you are caring for two parents, you may claim up to $6,000 in benefits.
The sole exception is that if you get a dependent care benefit that is excluded or deducted from your income via your employer, you must remove that benefit amount from the credit before claiming it.
Deduction for Medical Expenses
When caring for an elderly parent, the expenses of prescription medications, doctor and hospital fees, and medical equipment may quickly add up.
If your medical expenditures surpass the IRS threshold, you may be eligible to claim the medical expense deduction as part of your expenses when you submit your taxes.
As of 2023, the rule is that if your medical expenditures exceed 7.5% of your adjusted gross income from 2022, you may be allowed to deduct a portion of those expenses by claiming them as itemized deductions.
To deduct any portion of your parent's medical expenditures from your taxes, you must first be eligible to claim them as a dependant.
Keep in mind that state regulations may be less stringent than those enforced by the IRS, so you may be able to save money on state taxes as well.
Final Considerations Before Moving Your Elderly Parents into Your House
Remember that having a growth mindset and a good attitude are important aspects of how we conduct our lives. Your mentality will determine the success of this transition.
If you are concerned about the changes that are taking place, please seek guidance from your local Agency on Aging. They have excellent case managers who can advise you on coping with the various changes you and your loved ones are experiencing.
Maintaining open lines of communication among all members of your family is also critical. Some changes may be required over time, but other families have done this successfully; you can, too.
How Can Trustworthy Help?
Take the first steps towards preventing an emergency by signing up for Trustworthy today.
With Trustworthy, you can upload all of your parents’ important financial and legal documents to one secure server. That way, when they move into your home, you won’t lose any of your parents’ critical papers, such as their powers of attorney and wills.
Don’t take a risk with your parent’s legal future. Start your free 14-day trial now.
Moving An Elderly Parent Into Your Home: What To Know
Ty McDuffey
April 15, 2023
|
The intelligent digital vault for families
Trustworthy protects and optimizes important family information so you can save time, money, and enjoy peace of mind
You will not be alone if you decide to transfer an elderly parent or other aging relative into your home.
According to Caregiving in the United States 2020, a survey conducted by AARP and the National Alliance for Caregiving, one in five people in the United States care for someone aged 50 or older.
This arrangement has numerous advantages, but it is not suitable for everyone.
It may be less expensive than placing the individual in a nursing home (which costs approximately $9,000 per month on average) or an assisted living facility (which costs approximately $4,500 per year on average), but you may pay a high price in terms of stress and strained relationships.
Adding another person to the home affects the dynamics of the whole family, no matter how tight and loving your relationship is. The transition will go more smoothly if you and your loved one go in with an open mind and evaluate the financial and emotional expenses ahead of time.
This post will advise you on the considerations to make when deciding whether to have an aging parent live with you.
Key Takeaways:
Caregiving for an elderly parent has hidden expenditures and requires careful planning and preparation. Consider your parent's mental and physical health and your own abilities and boundaries before deciding to care for them at home.
Intergenerational connection and legacy can have advantages, but it's important to ensure everyone is on board and ready to make sacrifices and take on obligations.
Preparing your house for a parent's arrival may require installations, such as a stairlift or a walk-in shower. There may also be financial implications, such as the Child and Dependent Care Credit.
Can You Afford to Have a Parent Move In?
At first glance, you might think relocating a parent would save your family money by cutting out the cost of a nursing home.
However, you need to know that providing care in your home may also rapidly become expensive.
Examining your existing budget and forecasting how it could change if your parent moves in is critical.
Caregiving has hidden expenditures, such as time spent driving your parent to medical visits and elder care programs.
You will continue to pay your own household bills, such as mortgage and insurance, but you will most likely need to raise your income for food and any home modifications or adjustments necessary to make your new living arrangement comfortable for your elderly parent.
Spending the effort now to forecast your additional expenses may help you stay on track with your budget.
What Type of Care Would Your Elderly Parent Need at Home?
Consider your aging parent's mental and physical health before deciding to care for them at home.
Are they reasonably healthy and self-sufficient, needing little care?
If this is the case, relocating your parent may allow them to connect with other family members. Your children can get to know them while they’re still healthy.
On the other hand, does your parent have a chronic illness? What will their condition be like in six months? Two years? What will your parents’ caregiving needs be in the future?
One of the primary responsibilities of a caregiver is to evaluate medical needs. Keeping track of medical appointments, managing medications, or estimating pain levels are all examples of what this entails.
Consider reading about typical dementia behaviors to ensure you and your family are prepared if your parent suffers memory loss or cognitive decline.
Ultimately, you should consult a doctor and other health specialists before caring for your elderly parents at home and consider whether you can deal with their chronic diseases or physical restrictions.
How Much Personal Help and Monitoring Can You Offer?
Before moving an elderly parent into your home, consider your abilities and boundaries.
Are you comfortable conducting personal responsibilities, such as washing and dressing, if your parent needs assistance with activities of daily living?
Are you willing and able to assist your parent in using the restroom throughout the night?
Consider these questions and more:
Do you have somebody at home who can assist you? You may not always be there to assist your parent when needed, such as shifting from a wheelchair to a bed.
Do you have any kids? Consider how relocating your elderly parents will impact your children. Are your children old enough to help with everyday tasks or provide care for your parents if necessary?
Do you have a job? If so, do you have the ability to set aside spare time? Flexibility during the day or evening might be beneficial if an emergency occurs or you need to help with errands, medication, or transportation.
Related: Is It Wrong To Move Away From Elderly Parents? My Advice
How Are You Going to Prepare Your House for Your Elderly Parents?
Consider these and more questions:
Do you have an available room or need to make space via house remodeling?
Will someone have to give up their room at home?
Is there an accessible restroom nearby for your senior loved one?
Is your parent confined to a wheelchair? Can your home suit their mobility requirements?
Is the expense of home remodeling worth it for both short-term and long-term health care needs?
Will your parent and other family members be able to preserve a reasonable amount of privacy at home?
Answer these questions in your head before moving on.
What Are Your Family Members' Feelings Towards the Prospective Move-in?
When moving your parent in, communicate with family members and follow your instincts.
Facilitate family discussions or ask relatives one-on-one, but make an effort to gather answers to the following questions:
Is your spouse encouraging of the idea? Do they get along well with your parents?
How does your elderly parent feel about this change?
There are several advantages to intergenerational connection and legacy.
For example, it allows families to assist one another and form stronger bonds.
However, make sure everyone is on board with the plan and is ready to accept possible sacrifices and obligations.
Consider meals, household noise levels, and everyone's interests and weekly lifestyles before making your decision.
How Will Your Parents' Social Life Be Affected By the Move?
When your parent moves in with you, they may leave their own social circle and friends behind.
It may also be difficult for elderly individuals to adapt to a new setting, particularly if they are stubborn or struggling with a disease like Alzheimer’s.
If you and your spouse work outside the house and your children are in school, your elderly parent will have a lot of alone time.
Senior depression and loneliness as a result of isolation might become a problem.
Will Your Parent Be Able to Follow Your Home Rules?
When your parent moves in with you, your relationship changes. You, not your elderly parent, are now the main caregiver and decision-maker.
It's a chance for the whole family to rethink rules, determine which ones work, and create new ones as needed.
You may set home rules that work for the whole family and allow your elderly parent to adjust gracefully to their new dependent status if everyone is prepared to adapt and compromise.
Here are a few considerations:
Will your parent be able to cope with the loss of part of their freedom, as well as the space and solitude they have become used to?
Will they respect your values regarding your childrearing and your way of life?
Is it likely that your parent will smoke or drink in your home?
Will your parent respect the standards of cleanliness and order you like in your home?
Is your parent the owner of a pet you're taking in? If so, will the pet follow your rules on behavior and cleanliness?
Some elderly people adapt well to their dependent status. Some resist it. Others are saddened or enraged by it.
Will a parent accept your aid? Will you be relegated to the position of son or daughter, with your parent continually directing you on what to do?
Will your parent make you feel you never do it right and can never do enough to meet their needs?
Consider your answers to these questions as you use this as a chance to establish new boundaries and build new relationships.
How to Prepare Mentally for Caregiving
Remember that moving your elderly parent into your home is not a decision you can make one day and be ready for the next, particularly if they need special care.
When You Are Stressed, Go Back Over Your Decision
Remember why you decided to move your elderly parent into your home when things get tough and stressful.
Take a few deep breaths if anything happens during the move-in that causes your heart to race and your anger to flare.
When emotions take over, reminding yourself why you selected this decision for you and your parents may help put things in perspective.
Here are some reasons that may appeal to you:
Using your own home could help the family save money compared to a long-term care facility.
It's an excellent chance to spend extra time with a loved one.
Your parents could assist you with childcare.
Caring for your parents gives you pride and peace of mind since you know they are in the best hands with you.
How to Get Your Home Ready for Aging Parents
This checklist will assist you in preparing your house for the arrival of a parent.
Make Your House Safe for the Elderly
It's normal practice to baby-proof a home before the arrival of a child; you should similarly "elder-proof" your home when relocating an elderly parent. This will assist your parent in feeling safe and comfortable while they adapt to living in a new house.
To prepare your house, use the following checklist:
Ground floor: Try to have your parent reside on the same level as the kitchen so they don't have to use the stairs. Consider installing a stairlift if your house has steps.
Bathroom: Install grab bars and think about adding a walk-in shower.
Safety equipment: Place anti-slip mats under carpets, place bumpers on sharp furniture corners, and remove wobbly chairs.
Clear the flooring: If you have children, consider buying toy containers to keep the floor free of tripping hazards.
Use proper lighting: Make sure that rooms, corridors, and pathways are well-lit.
Ensure wheelchair access: If your parent needs a wheelchair, ensure doorways and hallways are wide enough for a wheelchair to pass through (between 32 and 36 inches) and provide ramps where necessary.
Put Everyone's Privacy First
If you bring a parent into your house, you'll have to share common spaces (unless you have an in-law suite).
Regardless of the size of the house, it is important that you and your parents have your own space.
Even if your parent needs intensive care, the most effective method to have them live with you is to give them as much liberty as possible.
Here are some ideas for fostering parental independence in a confined space:
Kitchen: Give your parents their own kitchen cabinet for storage. Give them their own refrigerator shelf, if possible.
Laundry: Get laundry baskets and towels in a separate color for your parents so they don't get mixed up with yours. Encourage your parents, if they are able, to do their own washing.
TVs: Consider getting your parents their own television so they can watch anything they want during the day or at night.
Pets: You could allow parents to have their own pet as a friend and added duty. If your parents cannot care for the pet, ensure that someone else in the family is capable before introducing a pet into your household.
Communication: Using baby monitors or walkie-talkies may boost communication while preserving privacy. A baby monitor enables you to hear your parent call for assistance, while a walkie-talkie allows you to have two-way conversations without leaving the room.
Intimacy: Consider setting boundaries on intimate relationships. Is it okay for Mom and her lover to cuddle in the living room? Can your Dad's girlfriend spend the night, or do they need to find another place to stay?
The Tax Implications of Having a Parent Live with You
Let's start with the basic tax ramifications of having a parent live with you.
Tax advantages are available to assist you in recuperating part of your expenditures if you care for an elderly parent in your home.
The first possible advantage is the opportunity to list your parent as a dependant on your tax return.
You may do so even if your parent does not live with you; nevertheless, the following are the conditions for claiming dependence on a parent who lives with you:
Your parent must be a US citizen or resident.
Foster parents are not eligible, but parents, grandparents, and stepparents are.
Their total annual income must be less than $5,000.
Throughout the year, you pay for more than half of their support (if your siblings are helping to care for your parents, you may need to sort out the percentages with them).
If you and a sibling pay less than half of your parents' expenditures while providing at least 10%, one of you may claim them as a dependant on IRS form 2120. You may even alternate who claims the deduction each year.
Credit for Child and Dependent Care
What happens if you live with an older parent and hire someone to care for them while you work or hunt for a job? You might qualify for the Child and Dependent Care Credit.
If you employ someone to care for a parent who lives with you, you may deduct up to $3,000 in care-related costs under the Child and Dependent Care Credit. If you are caring for two parents, you may claim up to $6,000 in benefits.
The sole exception is that if you get a dependent care benefit that is excluded or deducted from your income via your employer, you must remove that benefit amount from the credit before claiming it.
Deduction for Medical Expenses
When caring for an elderly parent, the expenses of prescription medications, doctor and hospital fees, and medical equipment may quickly add up.
If your medical expenditures surpass the IRS threshold, you may be eligible to claim the medical expense deduction as part of your expenses when you submit your taxes.
As of 2023, the rule is that if your medical expenditures exceed 7.5% of your adjusted gross income from 2022, you may be allowed to deduct a portion of those expenses by claiming them as itemized deductions.
To deduct any portion of your parent's medical expenditures from your taxes, you must first be eligible to claim them as a dependant.
Keep in mind that state regulations may be less stringent than those enforced by the IRS, so you may be able to save money on state taxes as well.
Final Considerations Before Moving Your Elderly Parents into Your House
Remember that having a growth mindset and a good attitude are important aspects of how we conduct our lives. Your mentality will determine the success of this transition.
If you are concerned about the changes that are taking place, please seek guidance from your local Agency on Aging. They have excellent case managers who can advise you on coping with the various changes you and your loved ones are experiencing.
Maintaining open lines of communication among all members of your family is also critical. Some changes may be required over time, but other families have done this successfully; you can, too.
How Can Trustworthy Help?
Take the first steps towards preventing an emergency by signing up for Trustworthy today.
With Trustworthy, you can upload all of your parents’ important financial and legal documents to one secure server. That way, when they move into your home, you won’t lose any of your parents’ critical papers, such as their powers of attorney and wills.
Don’t take a risk with your parent’s legal future. Start your free 14-day trial now.
Moving An Elderly Parent Into Your Home: What To Know
Ty McDuffey
April 15, 2023
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You will not be alone if you decide to transfer an elderly parent or other aging relative into your home.
According to Caregiving in the United States 2020, a survey conducted by AARP and the National Alliance for Caregiving, one in five people in the United States care for someone aged 50 or older.
This arrangement has numerous advantages, but it is not suitable for everyone.
It may be less expensive than placing the individual in a nursing home (which costs approximately $9,000 per month on average) or an assisted living facility (which costs approximately $4,500 per year on average), but you may pay a high price in terms of stress and strained relationships.
Adding another person to the home affects the dynamics of the whole family, no matter how tight and loving your relationship is. The transition will go more smoothly if you and your loved one go in with an open mind and evaluate the financial and emotional expenses ahead of time.
This post will advise you on the considerations to make when deciding whether to have an aging parent live with you.
Key Takeaways:
Caregiving for an elderly parent has hidden expenditures and requires careful planning and preparation. Consider your parent's mental and physical health and your own abilities and boundaries before deciding to care for them at home.
Intergenerational connection and legacy can have advantages, but it's important to ensure everyone is on board and ready to make sacrifices and take on obligations.
Preparing your house for a parent's arrival may require installations, such as a stairlift or a walk-in shower. There may also be financial implications, such as the Child and Dependent Care Credit.
Can You Afford to Have a Parent Move In?
At first glance, you might think relocating a parent would save your family money by cutting out the cost of a nursing home.
However, you need to know that providing care in your home may also rapidly become expensive.
Examining your existing budget and forecasting how it could change if your parent moves in is critical.
Caregiving has hidden expenditures, such as time spent driving your parent to medical visits and elder care programs.
You will continue to pay your own household bills, such as mortgage and insurance, but you will most likely need to raise your income for food and any home modifications or adjustments necessary to make your new living arrangement comfortable for your elderly parent.
Spending the effort now to forecast your additional expenses may help you stay on track with your budget.
What Type of Care Would Your Elderly Parent Need at Home?
Consider your aging parent's mental and physical health before deciding to care for them at home.
Are they reasonably healthy and self-sufficient, needing little care?
If this is the case, relocating your parent may allow them to connect with other family members. Your children can get to know them while they’re still healthy.
On the other hand, does your parent have a chronic illness? What will their condition be like in six months? Two years? What will your parents’ caregiving needs be in the future?
One of the primary responsibilities of a caregiver is to evaluate medical needs. Keeping track of medical appointments, managing medications, or estimating pain levels are all examples of what this entails.
Consider reading about typical dementia behaviors to ensure you and your family are prepared if your parent suffers memory loss or cognitive decline.
Ultimately, you should consult a doctor and other health specialists before caring for your elderly parents at home and consider whether you can deal with their chronic diseases or physical restrictions.
How Much Personal Help and Monitoring Can You Offer?
Before moving an elderly parent into your home, consider your abilities and boundaries.
Are you comfortable conducting personal responsibilities, such as washing and dressing, if your parent needs assistance with activities of daily living?
Are you willing and able to assist your parent in using the restroom throughout the night?
Consider these questions and more:
Do you have somebody at home who can assist you? You may not always be there to assist your parent when needed, such as shifting from a wheelchair to a bed.
Do you have any kids? Consider how relocating your elderly parents will impact your children. Are your children old enough to help with everyday tasks or provide care for your parents if necessary?
Do you have a job? If so, do you have the ability to set aside spare time? Flexibility during the day or evening might be beneficial if an emergency occurs or you need to help with errands, medication, or transportation.
Related: Is It Wrong To Move Away From Elderly Parents? My Advice
How Are You Going to Prepare Your House for Your Elderly Parents?
Consider these and more questions:
Do you have an available room or need to make space via house remodeling?
Will someone have to give up their room at home?
Is there an accessible restroom nearby for your senior loved one?
Is your parent confined to a wheelchair? Can your home suit their mobility requirements?
Is the expense of home remodeling worth it for both short-term and long-term health care needs?
Will your parent and other family members be able to preserve a reasonable amount of privacy at home?
Answer these questions in your head before moving on.
What Are Your Family Members' Feelings Towards the Prospective Move-in?
When moving your parent in, communicate with family members and follow your instincts.
Facilitate family discussions or ask relatives one-on-one, but make an effort to gather answers to the following questions:
Is your spouse encouraging of the idea? Do they get along well with your parents?
How does your elderly parent feel about this change?
There are several advantages to intergenerational connection and legacy.
For example, it allows families to assist one another and form stronger bonds.
However, make sure everyone is on board with the plan and is ready to accept possible sacrifices and obligations.
Consider meals, household noise levels, and everyone's interests and weekly lifestyles before making your decision.
How Will Your Parents' Social Life Be Affected By the Move?
When your parent moves in with you, they may leave their own social circle and friends behind.
It may also be difficult for elderly individuals to adapt to a new setting, particularly if they are stubborn or struggling with a disease like Alzheimer’s.
If you and your spouse work outside the house and your children are in school, your elderly parent will have a lot of alone time.
Senior depression and loneliness as a result of isolation might become a problem.
Will Your Parent Be Able to Follow Your Home Rules?
When your parent moves in with you, your relationship changes. You, not your elderly parent, are now the main caregiver and decision-maker.
It's a chance for the whole family to rethink rules, determine which ones work, and create new ones as needed.
You may set home rules that work for the whole family and allow your elderly parent to adjust gracefully to their new dependent status if everyone is prepared to adapt and compromise.
Here are a few considerations:
Will your parent be able to cope with the loss of part of their freedom, as well as the space and solitude they have become used to?
Will they respect your values regarding your childrearing and your way of life?
Is it likely that your parent will smoke or drink in your home?
Will your parent respect the standards of cleanliness and order you like in your home?
Is your parent the owner of a pet you're taking in? If so, will the pet follow your rules on behavior and cleanliness?
Some elderly people adapt well to their dependent status. Some resist it. Others are saddened or enraged by it.
Will a parent accept your aid? Will you be relegated to the position of son or daughter, with your parent continually directing you on what to do?
Will your parent make you feel you never do it right and can never do enough to meet their needs?
Consider your answers to these questions as you use this as a chance to establish new boundaries and build new relationships.
How to Prepare Mentally for Caregiving
Remember that moving your elderly parent into your home is not a decision you can make one day and be ready for the next, particularly if they need special care.
When You Are Stressed, Go Back Over Your Decision
Remember why you decided to move your elderly parent into your home when things get tough and stressful.
Take a few deep breaths if anything happens during the move-in that causes your heart to race and your anger to flare.
When emotions take over, reminding yourself why you selected this decision for you and your parents may help put things in perspective.
Here are some reasons that may appeal to you:
Using your own home could help the family save money compared to a long-term care facility.
It's an excellent chance to spend extra time with a loved one.
Your parents could assist you with childcare.
Caring for your parents gives you pride and peace of mind since you know they are in the best hands with you.
How to Get Your Home Ready for Aging Parents
This checklist will assist you in preparing your house for the arrival of a parent.
Make Your House Safe for the Elderly
It's normal practice to baby-proof a home before the arrival of a child; you should similarly "elder-proof" your home when relocating an elderly parent. This will assist your parent in feeling safe and comfortable while they adapt to living in a new house.
To prepare your house, use the following checklist:
Ground floor: Try to have your parent reside on the same level as the kitchen so they don't have to use the stairs. Consider installing a stairlift if your house has steps.
Bathroom: Install grab bars and think about adding a walk-in shower.
Safety equipment: Place anti-slip mats under carpets, place bumpers on sharp furniture corners, and remove wobbly chairs.
Clear the flooring: If you have children, consider buying toy containers to keep the floor free of tripping hazards.
Use proper lighting: Make sure that rooms, corridors, and pathways are well-lit.
Ensure wheelchair access: If your parent needs a wheelchair, ensure doorways and hallways are wide enough for a wheelchair to pass through (between 32 and 36 inches) and provide ramps where necessary.
Put Everyone's Privacy First
If you bring a parent into your house, you'll have to share common spaces (unless you have an in-law suite).
Regardless of the size of the house, it is important that you and your parents have your own space.
Even if your parent needs intensive care, the most effective method to have them live with you is to give them as much liberty as possible.
Here are some ideas for fostering parental independence in a confined space:
Kitchen: Give your parents their own kitchen cabinet for storage. Give them their own refrigerator shelf, if possible.
Laundry: Get laundry baskets and towels in a separate color for your parents so they don't get mixed up with yours. Encourage your parents, if they are able, to do their own washing.
TVs: Consider getting your parents their own television so they can watch anything they want during the day or at night.
Pets: You could allow parents to have their own pet as a friend and added duty. If your parents cannot care for the pet, ensure that someone else in the family is capable before introducing a pet into your household.
Communication: Using baby monitors or walkie-talkies may boost communication while preserving privacy. A baby monitor enables you to hear your parent call for assistance, while a walkie-talkie allows you to have two-way conversations without leaving the room.
Intimacy: Consider setting boundaries on intimate relationships. Is it okay for Mom and her lover to cuddle in the living room? Can your Dad's girlfriend spend the night, or do they need to find another place to stay?
The Tax Implications of Having a Parent Live with You
Let's start with the basic tax ramifications of having a parent live with you.
Tax advantages are available to assist you in recuperating part of your expenditures if you care for an elderly parent in your home.
The first possible advantage is the opportunity to list your parent as a dependant on your tax return.
You may do so even if your parent does not live with you; nevertheless, the following are the conditions for claiming dependence on a parent who lives with you:
Your parent must be a US citizen or resident.
Foster parents are not eligible, but parents, grandparents, and stepparents are.
Their total annual income must be less than $5,000.
Throughout the year, you pay for more than half of their support (if your siblings are helping to care for your parents, you may need to sort out the percentages with them).
If you and a sibling pay less than half of your parents' expenditures while providing at least 10%, one of you may claim them as a dependant on IRS form 2120. You may even alternate who claims the deduction each year.
Credit for Child and Dependent Care
What happens if you live with an older parent and hire someone to care for them while you work or hunt for a job? You might qualify for the Child and Dependent Care Credit.
If you employ someone to care for a parent who lives with you, you may deduct up to $3,000 in care-related costs under the Child and Dependent Care Credit. If you are caring for two parents, you may claim up to $6,000 in benefits.
The sole exception is that if you get a dependent care benefit that is excluded or deducted from your income via your employer, you must remove that benefit amount from the credit before claiming it.
Deduction for Medical Expenses
When caring for an elderly parent, the expenses of prescription medications, doctor and hospital fees, and medical equipment may quickly add up.
If your medical expenditures surpass the IRS threshold, you may be eligible to claim the medical expense deduction as part of your expenses when you submit your taxes.
As of 2023, the rule is that if your medical expenditures exceed 7.5% of your adjusted gross income from 2022, you may be allowed to deduct a portion of those expenses by claiming them as itemized deductions.
To deduct any portion of your parent's medical expenditures from your taxes, you must first be eligible to claim them as a dependant.
Keep in mind that state regulations may be less stringent than those enforced by the IRS, so you may be able to save money on state taxes as well.
Final Considerations Before Moving Your Elderly Parents into Your House
Remember that having a growth mindset and a good attitude are important aspects of how we conduct our lives. Your mentality will determine the success of this transition.
If you are concerned about the changes that are taking place, please seek guidance from your local Agency on Aging. They have excellent case managers who can advise you on coping with the various changes you and your loved ones are experiencing.
Maintaining open lines of communication among all members of your family is also critical. Some changes may be required over time, but other families have done this successfully; you can, too.
How Can Trustworthy Help?
Take the first steps towards preventing an emergency by signing up for Trustworthy today.
With Trustworthy, you can upload all of your parents’ important financial and legal documents to one secure server. That way, when they move into your home, you won’t lose any of your parents’ critical papers, such as their powers of attorney and wills.
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How To Cancel a Deceased Person's Subscriptions the EASY Way
Nov 8, 2023
Nov 8, 2023
What Should You Not Put in a Eulogy (9 Things To Avoid)
What Should You Not Put in a Eulogy (9 Things To Avoid)
Nov 7, 2023
Nov 7, 2023
How Are Estates Distributed If There's No Will? A Lawyer Explains Intestate
How Are Estates Distributed If There's No Will? A Lawyer Explains Intestate
Nov 6, 2023
Nov 6, 2023
Does Microsoft Word Have an Obituary Template?
Does Microsoft Word Have an Obituary Template?
Nov 6, 2023
Nov 6, 2023
How To Post an Obituary on Facebook: A Step-by-Step Guide
How To Post an Obituary on Facebook: A Step-by-Step Guide
Nov 6, 2023
Nov 6, 2023
Why Do You Need A Death Certificate For Estate & Probate Process?
Why Do You Need A Death Certificate For Estate & Probate Process?
Nov 2, 2023
Nov 2, 2023
How Do I Correct Errors on a Death Certificate? And, How Long Does It Take?
How Do I Correct Errors on a Death Certificate? And, How Long Does It Take?
Nov 2, 2023
Nov 2, 2023
12 Steps For Writing a Eulogy For Mom
12 Steps For Writing a Eulogy For Mom
Nov 2, 2023
Nov 2, 2023
12 Steps for Writing a Eulogy for Dad
12 Steps for Writing a Eulogy for Dad
Nov 1, 2023
Nov 1, 2023
Who Does The Obituary When Someone Dies?
Who Does The Obituary When Someone Dies?
Nov 1, 2023
Nov 1, 2023
How Late Is Too Late For An Obituary? 6 Steps To Take Today
How Late Is Too Late For An Obituary? 6 Steps To Take Today
Nov 1, 2023
Nov 1, 2023
How Much Does It Cost To Publish An Obituary? Breaking It Down
How Much Does It Cost To Publish An Obituary? Breaking It Down
Nov 1, 2023
Nov 1, 2023
6 Reasons You Need an Obituary (Plus 6 Reasons You Don't)
6 Reasons You Need an Obituary (Plus 6 Reasons You Don't)
Oct 30, 2023
Oct 30, 2023
Where Do You Post an Obituary: A Step-By-Step Guide
Where Do You Post an Obituary: A Step-By-Step Guide
Oct 30, 2023
Oct 30, 2023
Obituary vs Death Note: What Are the Key Differences?
Obituary vs Death Note: What Are the Key Differences?
Oct 5, 2023
Oct 5, 2023
Buying A House With Elderly Parent: 10 Things To Know
Buying A House With Elderly Parent: 10 Things To Know
Sep 14, 2023
Sep 14, 2023
I'm Trapped Caring for Elderly Parents
I'm Trapped Caring for Elderly Parents
Oct 5, 2023
Oct 5, 2023
401(k) and Minors: Can a Minor be a Beneficiary?
401(k) and Minors: Can a Minor be a Beneficiary?
Sep 12, 2023
Sep 12, 2023
How to Self-Direct Your 401(k): Take Control of Your Retirement
How to Self-Direct Your 401(k): Take Control of Your Retirement
Aug 3, 2023
Aug 3, 2023
The Ultimate Guide to Decluttering and Simplifying Your Home as You Age
The Ultimate Guide to Decluttering and Simplifying Your Home as You Age
Aug 3, 2023
Aug 3, 2023
The Essential Guide to Preparing for Retirement
The Essential Guide to Preparing for Retirement
Aug 3, 2023
Aug 3, 2023
Estate Planning For Blended Families (Complete Guide)
Estate Planning For Blended Families (Complete Guide)
Aug 3, 2023
Aug 3, 2023
Estate Planning For Physicians (Complete Guide)
Estate Planning For Physicians (Complete Guide)
Jul 14, 2023
Jul 14, 2023
Are You Legally Responsible For Your Elderly Parents?
Are You Legally Responsible For Your Elderly Parents?
Jun 7, 2023
Jun 7, 2023
How To Travel With Elderly Parent: Here's How to Prepare
How To Travel With Elderly Parent: Here's How to Prepare
Jun 6, 2023
Jun 6, 2023
Checklist For Moving A Parent To Assisted Living
Checklist For Moving A Parent To Assisted Living
Jun 6, 2023
Jun 6, 2023
How to Set Up A Trust For An Elderly Parent: 6 Easy Steps
How to Set Up A Trust For An Elderly Parent: 6 Easy Steps
Jun 6, 2023
Jun 6, 2023
How To Stop Elderly Parents From Giving Money Away (9 Tips)
How To Stop Elderly Parents From Giving Money Away (9 Tips)
Jun 6, 2023
Jun 6, 2023
Should Elderly Parents Sign Over Their House? Pros & Cons
Should Elderly Parents Sign Over Their House? Pros & Cons
May 17, 2023
May 17, 2023
Estate Planning: A Comprehensive Guide
Estate Planning: A Comprehensive Guide
May 2, 2023
May 2, 2023
Helping Elderly Parents: The Complete Guide
Helping Elderly Parents: The Complete Guide
May 1, 2023
May 1, 2023
Trustworthy guide: How to organize your digital information
Trustworthy guide: How to organize your digital information
Apr 15, 2023
Apr 15, 2023
Can My Husband Make a Will Without My Knowledge?
Can My Husband Make a Will Without My Knowledge?
Apr 15, 2023
Apr 15, 2023
What is a Last Will and Testament (also known as a Will)?
What is a Last Will and Testament (also known as a Will)?
Apr 15, 2023
Apr 15, 2023
Can A Wife Sell Deceased Husband's Property (6 Rules)
Can A Wife Sell Deceased Husband's Property (6 Rules)
Apr 15, 2023
Apr 15, 2023
Should I Shred Documents Of A Deceased Person? (5 Tips)
Should I Shred Documents Of A Deceased Person? (5 Tips)
Apr 15, 2023
Apr 15, 2023
Can I Change My Power of Attorney Without A Lawyer?
Can I Change My Power of Attorney Without A Lawyer?
Apr 15, 2023
Apr 15, 2023
Can You Have Two Power of Attorneys? (A Lawyer Answers)
Can You Have Two Power of Attorneys? (A Lawyer Answers)
Apr 15, 2023
Apr 15, 2023
Do Attorneys Keep Copies Of a Will? (4 Things To Know)
Do Attorneys Keep Copies Of a Will? (4 Things To Know)
Apr 15, 2023
Apr 15, 2023
Estate Planning for a Special Needs Child (Complete Guide)
Estate Planning for a Special Needs Child (Complete Guide)
Apr 15, 2023
Apr 15, 2023
Estate Planning For Childless Couples (Complete Guide)
Estate Planning For Childless Couples (Complete Guide)
Apr 15, 2023
Apr 15, 2023
Estate Planning For Elderly Parents (Complete Guide)
Estate Planning For Elderly Parents (Complete Guide)
Apr 15, 2023
Apr 15, 2023
Estate Planning For High Net Worth & Large Estates
Estate Planning For High Net Worth & Large Estates
Apr 15, 2023
Apr 15, 2023
Estate Planning For Irresponsible Children (Complete Guide)
Estate Planning For Irresponsible Children (Complete Guide)
Apr 15, 2023
Apr 15, 2023
How To Get Power of Attorney For Parent With Dementia?
How To Get Power of Attorney For Parent With Dementia?
Apr 15, 2023
Apr 15, 2023
I Lost My Power of Attorney Papers, Now What?
I Lost My Power of Attorney Papers, Now What?
Apr 15, 2023
Apr 15, 2023
Is It Better To Sell or Rent An Inherited House? (Pros & Cons)
Is It Better To Sell or Rent An Inherited House? (Pros & Cons)
Apr 15, 2023
Apr 15, 2023
Is It Wrong To Move Away From Elderly Parents? My Advice
Is It Wrong To Move Away From Elderly Parents? My Advice
Apr 15, 2023
Apr 15, 2023
Moving An Elderly Parent Into Your Home: What To Know
Moving An Elderly Parent Into Your Home: What To Know
Apr 15, 2023
Apr 15, 2023
Moving An Elderly Parent to Another State: What To Know
Moving An Elderly Parent to Another State: What To Know
Apr 15, 2023
Apr 15, 2023
What If Witnesses To A Will Cannot Be Found? A Lawyer Answers
What If Witnesses To A Will Cannot Be Found? A Lawyer Answers
Apr 15, 2023
Apr 15, 2023
What To Bring To Estate Planning Meeting (Checklist)
What To Bring To Estate Planning Meeting (Checklist)
Apr 15, 2023
Apr 15, 2023
When Should You Get An Estate Plan? (According To A Lawyer)
When Should You Get An Estate Plan? (According To A Lawyer)
Apr 15, 2023
Apr 15, 2023
Which Sibling Should Take Care of Elderly Parents?
Which Sibling Should Take Care of Elderly Parents?
Apr 15, 2023
Apr 15, 2023
Who Can Override A Power of Attorney? (A Lawyer Answers)
Who Can Override A Power of Attorney? (A Lawyer Answers)
Apr 15, 2023
Apr 15, 2023
Can Power of Attorney Sell Property Before Death?
Can Power of Attorney Sell Property Before Death?
Apr 15, 2023
Apr 15, 2023
Can The Executor Of A Will Access Bank Accounts? (Yes, Here's How)
Can The Executor Of A Will Access Bank Accounts? (Yes, Here's How)
Apr 15, 2023
Apr 15, 2023
Complete List of Things To Do For Elderly Parents (Checklist)
Complete List of Things To Do For Elderly Parents (Checklist)
Apr 15, 2023
Apr 15, 2023
How To Get Power of Attorney For A Deceased Person?
How To Get Power of Attorney For A Deceased Person?
Apr 15, 2023
Apr 15, 2023
How To Help Elderly Parents From A Distance? 7 Tips
How To Help Elderly Parents From A Distance? 7 Tips
Apr 15, 2023
Apr 15, 2023
Legal Documents For Elderly Parents: Checklist
Legal Documents For Elderly Parents: Checklist
Apr 15, 2023
Apr 15, 2023
Selling Elderly Parents Home: How To Do It + Mistakes To Avoid
Selling Elderly Parents Home: How To Do It + Mistakes To Avoid
Apr 15, 2023
Apr 15, 2023
What To Do When A Sibling Is Manipulating Elderly Parents
What To Do When A Sibling Is Manipulating Elderly Parents
Apr 6, 2023
Apr 6, 2023
Can An Out of State Attorney Write My Will? (A Lawyer Answers)
Can An Out of State Attorney Write My Will? (A Lawyer Answers)
Mar 15, 2023
Mar 15, 2023
Settling an Estate: A Step-by-Step Guide
Settling an Estate: A Step-by-Step Guide
Feb 10, 2023
Feb 10, 2023
My Deceased Husband Received A Check In The Mail (4 Steps To Take)
My Deceased Husband Received A Check In The Mail (4 Steps To Take)
Feb 7, 2023
Feb 7, 2023
The Benefits of Working With an Experienced Estate Planning Attorney
The Benefits of Working With an Experienced Estate Planning Attorney
Feb 6, 2023
Feb 6, 2023
How To Track Elderly Parents' Phone (2 Options)
How To Track Elderly Parents' Phone (2 Options)
Feb 1, 2023
Feb 1, 2023
Can You Collect Your Parents' Social Security When They Die?
Can You Collect Your Parents' Social Security When They Die?
Feb 1, 2023
Feb 1, 2023
How Do I Stop VA Benefits When Someone Dies (Simple Guide)
How Do I Stop VA Benefits When Someone Dies (Simple Guide)
Feb 1, 2023
Feb 1, 2023
Can You Pay Money Into A Deceased Person's Bank Account?
Can You Pay Money Into A Deceased Person's Bank Account?
Feb 1, 2023
Feb 1, 2023
Deleting A Facebook Account When Someone Dies (Step by Step)
Deleting A Facebook Account When Someone Dies (Step by Step)
Feb 1, 2023
Feb 1, 2023
Does The DMV Know When Someone Dies?
Does The DMV Know When Someone Dies?
Feb 1, 2023
Feb 1, 2023
How To Find A Deceased Person's Lawyer (5 Ways)
How To Find A Deceased Person's Lawyer (5 Ways)
Feb 1, 2023
Feb 1, 2023
How To Plan A Celebration Of Life (10 Steps With Examples)
How To Plan A Celebration Of Life (10 Steps With Examples)
Feb 1, 2023
Feb 1, 2023
How To Stop Mail Of A Deceased Person? A Simple Guide
How To Stop Mail Of A Deceased Person? A Simple Guide
Feb 1, 2023
Feb 1, 2023
How to Stop Social Security Direct Deposit After Death
How to Stop Social Security Direct Deposit After Death
Feb 1, 2023
Feb 1, 2023
How To Transfer Firearms From A Deceased Person (3 Steps)
How To Transfer Firearms From A Deceased Person (3 Steps)
Feb 1, 2023
Feb 1, 2023
How To Write An Obituary (5 Steps With Examples)
How To Write An Obituary (5 Steps With Examples)
Feb 1, 2023
Feb 1, 2023
What Happens To A Leased Vehicle When Someone Dies?
What Happens To A Leased Vehicle When Someone Dies?
Jan 31, 2023
Jan 31, 2023
Do Wills Expire? 6 Things To Know
Do Wills Expire? 6 Things To Know
Jan 31, 2023
Jan 31, 2023
How To Get Into a Deceased Person's Computer (Microsoft & Apple)
How To Get Into a Deceased Person's Computer (Microsoft & Apple)
Jan 31, 2023
Jan 31, 2023
Why Do Funeral Homes Take Fingerprints of the Deceased?
Why Do Funeral Homes Take Fingerprints of the Deceased?
Jan 31, 2023
Jan 31, 2023
What To Do If Your Deceased Parents' Home Is In Foreclosure
What To Do If Your Deceased Parents' Home Is In Foreclosure
Jan 31, 2023
Jan 31, 2023
Questions To Ask An Estate Attorney After Death (Checklist)
Questions To Ask An Estate Attorney After Death (Checklist)
Jan 31, 2023
Jan 31, 2023
What Happens If a Deceased Individual Owes Taxes?
What Happens If a Deceased Individual Owes Taxes?
Jan 31, 2023
Jan 31, 2023
Components of Estate Planning: 6 Things To Consider
Components of Estate Planning: 6 Things To Consider
Jan 22, 2023
Jan 22, 2023
What To Do If Insurance Check Is Made Out To A Deceased Person
What To Do If Insurance Check Is Made Out To A Deceased Person
Jan 8, 2023
Jan 8, 2023
What Does a Typical Estate Plan Include?
What Does a Typical Estate Plan Include?
Apr 15, 2022
Apr 15, 2022
Can I Do A Video Will? (Is It Legitimate & What To Consider)
Can I Do A Video Will? (Is It Legitimate & What To Consider)
Apr 15, 2022
Apr 15, 2022
Estate Planning For Green Card Holders (Complete Guide)
Estate Planning For Green Card Holders (Complete Guide)
Mar 2, 2022
Mar 2, 2022
What Does Your “Property” Mean?
What Does Your “Property” Mean?
Mar 2, 2022
Mar 2, 2022
What is the Uniform Trust Code? What is the Uniform Probate Code?
What is the Uniform Trust Code? What is the Uniform Probate Code?
Mar 2, 2022
Mar 2, 2022
Do You Need to Avoid Probate?
Do You Need to Avoid Probate?
Mar 2, 2022
Mar 2, 2022
How is a Trust Created?
How is a Trust Created?
Mar 2, 2022
Mar 2, 2022
What Are Advance Directives?
What Are Advance Directives?
Mar 2, 2022
Mar 2, 2022
What does a Trustee Do?
What does a Trustee Do?
Mar 2, 2022
Mar 2, 2022
What is an Estate Plan? (And why you need one)
What is an Estate Plan? (And why you need one)
Mar 2, 2022
Mar 2, 2022
What is Probate?
What is Probate?
Mar 2, 2022
Mar 2, 2022
What Is Your Domicile & Why It Matters
What Is Your Domicile & Why It Matters
Mar 2, 2022
Mar 2, 2022
What Is a Power of Attorney for Finances?
What Is a Power of Attorney for Finances?
Mar 1, 2022
Mar 1, 2022
Should your family consider an umbrella insurance policy?
Should your family consider an umbrella insurance policy?
Mar 1, 2022
Mar 1, 2022
Do I need a digital power of attorney?
Do I need a digital power of attorney?
Apr 6, 2020
Apr 6, 2020
What Exactly is a Trust?
What Exactly is a Trust?